Let me throw my two cents worth in;
My husbands computer does not even recognize a cd in it.
I have two DVD drives, one is a DVD ROM (ie reader only) and one is a Panasonic single layer DVD burner (great burner).
Some DVDs created by others do not play in my DVD ROM drive, or play but with errors. However the panasonic DVD burner has not shown any issues reading DVDs created by others.
DVDs/CDs created on the Panasonic DVD burner work well in my DVD ROM drive and the CDs play well out the CD ROM drives in our other computers.
What I am pointing to, is that I suspect that you a problem with the alignment of your DVD burner. Alignment of CD Burners was critical when they first came out as single and double speed burners. These days we have 50 times or faster CD burners which in the most, do not have such issues. However many of the current DVD burners do have issues (and I am concerned, so too does my DVD ROM drive).
To test this, trying to burn a data CD and/or a DVD on your DVD Burner, and then try to read this on your husbands computer (and any other computers that you can get access to). Try to burn at least 500 MB or more if your using a CD to test with, and then try to copy the complete contents to the HD on the other computer (say, into a temporary folder, so it can all be deleted afterward). Video files are often good test subjects, because they are large and you can play them on the other PC and see if they have errors or not.
Beyond this, I do not have much else to offer, other than take heart that for me and many others UVS9 does do a good job of burning DVDs so too it should for you, once the reason is understood and resolved.
I have burned many DVD-R DVDs (which my TV DVD player can read) and DVD-RW, DVD+RW which other people's newer TV DVD players can play.
I greatly enjoy UVS9, it is so easy and so much fun to create DVDs of my families photos and video. I have been waiting for about 13 years for computers and computer video editing to get to the point where the hardware and software makes the task just so easy and simple (admitedly, others have jumped into using great products like UVS much earlier than myself). UVS9 adds many useful features while still making the task simple and not complex like many other Video Editors.